Point One: Scripturally, Marriage is a Symbol Reflecting Christ’s Love For His Church

Point Two: Scripturally, Headship means Service, Not Authority

Point Three: Scripturally, Everyone is Invited to Protect Healthy Marriages

Discussion Questions:

Watch the past message, then choose questions to get your group thinking and create openness.

  1. What was something that stood out to you from this past Sunday’s message? Share what you learned and how it will impact your life.

  2. Read Ephesians 5:21-33. What is one quality you admired in a married couple when you were growing up? How has that influenced your view of marriage?

  3. Paul calls marriage a “profound mystery" because it points to Christ and the Church. Why do you think God chose marriage to illustrate the Gospel? What does it mean for our marriages to point others to Jesus rather than ourselves?

  4. Read Philippians 2:3–8; James 4:7. Paul commands believers to submit to one another. What is the difference between biblical submission and cultural stereotypes? Why is submitting to Christ the foundation for every healthy relationship?

  5. Paul commands husbands to love as Christ loved. What stands out to you about Christ's example of leadership? How is servant leadership different from worldly leadership?

  6. Why is sacrificial love impossible apart from the transforming work of the Holy Spirit? How does understanding Christ's love change the expectations we bring into marriage?

  7. How does understanding Christ's love change the expectations we bring into marriage?

  8. Read Hebrews 10:24–25; Galatians 6:2. How can Growth Groups become safe places that strengthen marriages? What practical ways can we care for couples who are struggling?

  9. How can single adults encourage and support healthy marriages? How can you begin practicing Christlike love and servant-hearted relationships today, preparing yourself for future relationships or strengthening the relationships God has already given you?

  10. If someone watched my closest relationships for one week, would they see a clearer picture of Christ's love?

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